The month of June in a not-so-short nutshell

I just came here to update the blog and found a draft I'd never published. At least I have less to remember than I thought I did! Over the weekend of June 9-10, Luke went up to Montana for his parents 40th anniversary party. He left here saturday morning and got there about 5pm-in time for dinner with his parents and sister's family. He then stayed til about 4:30pm the next day and headed back to Gillette. So, he was there less than 24 hours... he was a tired guy when he got back. He was able to bring several coolers of much needed meat from both sets of parents, and some hand-me-down clothes from his sister, and some SAMS Club necessities while he was at it. Did I mention it was a BUSY 23 hours there? I don't remember a whole lot of what we had going on between then and now except VBS. This year I Co-directed VBS with a friend from church. She had a ton going on, so I think we both felt like VBS got a teensy bit overlooked...and it started to stress me out toward the end. I finally decided to just pray and let God know how I was feeling and purposely put my trust in Him to provide what was needed. I felt a lot better then and during the week of VBS God definitely made that provision! VBS started on Sunday the 24th... also, I ended up with a 18-20lb box of peaches that were NOT going to last another day. So after church Luke and I spent 4 hours washing, peeling, and finely chopping (in the food processor) all the peaches except about 8 which we saved to eat. We made 3 batches of freezer jam, then ran out of jars, sure-gel, and sugar. So I froze the remaining puree for another jam making session, maybe when the weather cools a bit! (it was over 100 the day I was doing this!) Then I left at 4 to head to the church to finish up setting up for VBS. It was a crazy night between setting up, registering all the kids (75 average), and making sure the volunteers for each age group and session had enough help. That night we had 14 four-year-old boys and 2 4-year-old girls. I was feeling bad for those teachers! BUT, at the end of the week when we did our "best behaved" awards it turned out that the nominees for that prize were 3 boys out of that group! I have nothing to say but GOOD about how VBS went. Each night we had exactly the help we needed, plenty of snacks and crafts prepared, and a great bunch of kids. I didn't even have to get up on stage and threaten them wiht "I'm NOT a nice person, and you DON'T want to come sit with me if you're naughty." Like last year! The downside to the week was that on the Friday before I had my normal OB appointment and had been having a LOT of contractions. Too many for my OB to be comfortable with. She thought they were due to a(nother) UTI and prescribed Macrobid (again). On Tuesday, when the contractions had only worsened, I called and they decided they needed to see me Thursday since it turned out I never did have the UTI. I went in on Thursday and they just did a few things to make sure I was not having pre-term labor and dilating or anything serious. They stopped my macrobid and once again it looked like I had a UTI. The very next morning I woke up with hives on my face and back of my arms. I searched high and low for benedryl (i have a history over very BAD allergic reactions when i have them...usually to bugs/spiders) and could find none but childrens. (Can we say "gross tasting"?) I called my dr, who said she thought it was probably an allergic reaction to macrobid and told me to take 25mg of benedryl every 8 hours. (That is less than half a normal dose, because of my pregnancy.) I did that all and thankfully Luke's jobsite had no contractors for the day so he was able to come home early to help me with kids through my benedryl fog. By that evening my hands were swollen to the point of "can't even make a fist" and raging with pain. The hives were everywhere. We called a doctor friend from the church who said to up the benedryl to 50mg every 6 hours, so we did that for the night. Somehow, miraculously, I slept fairly well all night...as long as I didn't try to graps my pillow or anything, and took my benedryl a half hour before i was supposed to. But when I got up in the morning it was BAAAAAAAD (as if it weren't already bad!) I was swollen from my fingertips half way up my arms, and my whole sides were one big hive, not to mention everywhere else. By this time I had tried the home remedies- oatmeal bath, baking soda bath, cold showers...I was willing to try ANYTHING. as I got out of yet another 30 second cold shower (which, by the way, does help the itching for a few minutes when your desperate) and looked at my fingers which were completely blue. Luke saw my eyes which were totally swollen and purple... that's when I realized we have to do more than benedryl! Even the insides of my ears were burning! So we called a friend to watch the kids and tried to decide between walk-in clinic or ER. At that point I had not felt the baby move in quite some time, and my contractions were totally gone. Our dr friend from church told us that at the walk in they would have to send us to either ER or OB floor of hospital if they were worried about the baby, so we opted to just start at the ER. I'm so glad we did. They got me right in (weird!) and the dr came to see me within a few minutes. He gave me some steroids and a prescription for more steroids and upped my benedryl again. By that time I had swollen up to almost my elbow and the hives had gotten worse (who knew they even COULD!) I was getting pretty depressed and wondering how bad could it GET? They checked baby's heartbeat- which was normal- and wouldn't you know it that about one minute later the baby decided to kick and squirm. (Isn't that always the case?) I guess we could ahve done the walkin clinic, but I don't care because we got treated so well at the ER. Also the ER doctor was able to call my OB dr to confer with her about his prescriptions, and checked my labs (that i'd done thursday) to make sure something major hadn't turned up. Thankfully, NOTHING. We are not 100% sure, but are being told to assume I am severly allergic to macrobid, which was probably what was causing the preterm labor and i had other symptoms of allergy that I hadn't noticed. (Like, feet hurting at night.... isn't that just pregnancy??? altho, the "pain" was a very weird sensation, not a normal achy feeling.) So here I am..able to type, and the swelling is back down to mostly just my hands (hence the reason I can even type, albeit a little uncomfortable!). About 5 hours after the steroids were in my system my hives were dissapearing almost as fast as they had come. I can still feel that I'm having the reaction, but am so thankful for the steroids taking the edge off! The pharmacist told us to expect a 3 day recovery. Let's just say I will never forget to tell a dr I'm allergic to Macrobid. And I'm so thankful it didn't turn into a breathing crisis (which I've had with bug/bees/spiders). All that to say, VBS week has sure been a full week! Oh, did i mention it was upper 90s and 100s for the week? This week I am looking forward to date night on Tuesday (we are now rotating date-night babysitting with 2 other families) and Luke having Wednesday off for the 4th. Then next Saturday we will meet my parents in Billings with Kaden so he can go spend 4ish days with my parents. THey will bring him back on his birthday (the 12th). I'll miss him a lot, but it will be fun to have a little extra one on one time with my Katelyn-girl. And make it easier to get his birthday party planned! So, I'm 29 weeks pregnant now...and hoping this was the most exciting week of pregnancy. Luke and I were joking while at the ER that it seems I only know how to do things in extremes: help in MOPS? why not co-coordinate, allergic reacion? the worse the better! baking bread? Why not do 8 loaves and freeze some? you know... I guess that's just me. Tomorrow is July 1 and I can't believe it!

june 8, 2012

I can never remember how far along I am. I finally wrote the weeks on my calendar so I at least have somewhere to go look! How different from the first time around!!!! Tomorrow morning Luke leaves for Montana for his parents 40th wedding anniversary party. It will be a long QUICK trip, which is why the kids and I are opting to stay home. During the summer Luke is very discouraged from taking time off work by his company (not that it seems to stop the other employees, but that doesn't mean Luke wants to be that kind of employee.) Anyway, so he will be leaving in the morning nad hopefully make it there by dinnertime (with one stop for us in Billings...when you live 2 hours from anything you HAVE to make use of the time you are in a city!). He will get to spend the evening with his family and then go to church (his dad is a pastor) in the morning. The party is at 1:30pm and he'll be headed home as soon as that is over. I wish it was not during the summer and that we could make a trip out of it, but I guess that's how life goes. Meanwhile, the kids and I plan to hold down the fort at home. We do have to get our bountiful basket at 10am and thats about our only plans! We are going to make the most of the weekend, even if daddy is gone! Life has been a little less hectic lately, but, interestingly enough, I actually feel more stressed. We have been playing outside a LOT and having a lot of friends over during the day. It's been so fun. I am co-directing VBS with another gal, and that has been a little different than last year. It seems to be coming together, but as always, I'll be glad when it's over! I am starting to hit that "third trimester fatigue" that I've actually never had in previous pregnancies...but now I am experiencing. By evening I'm usually totally wiped. I'm sure part of that has to do with being outside in the mid-80s for several hours a day!